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A couple of years ago a younger guy blew me off when I insisted that I call him from a blocked number.He told me there were plenty of women out there and that I needed to get over myself.I asked him if he could tell me a little about himself, given a very bare bones profile. I reply, “Neither of those are particularly inspiring. What do you do, what do you enjoy—what would I find fun about going out with you? Interests include traveling, cooking, watching movies, photography, hiking and going to wineries.He started with (to his credit, a full sentence): “I’m hungry now and want to eat something. ” When he gets no response from me, as I’ve walked away from my computer, he writes again, “no interest?Online dating—it’s one of my most searched terms, next to “what is an orgasm? I’m on a dating site right now and have a few observations based on recent conversations with guys.
Sick of all of the matches on Hinge who just write “hey there” to you?
I wrote about that story with a touch of humor, or at least I hope it comes off that way, this week in my column at Midlife Boulevard, What I’ve Learned About Online Dating.
I think that most adults over 50 are looking for something more than a thinly veiled “wanna have sex tonight?
But, at the same time, as I tell audiences, it is a good idea to be a little flexible–to be open to being pleasantly surprised. 37-year-old OCD guy might have been the most charming man I ever met.
Though I’m not meeting him–and maybe that was a risk I should have taken?